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by vivrant thang on malia obama interview
I have stayed away from rants about the foolishness some of these gossip bloggers spew because hell, since they consistently remain among the top ranked in the black blogosphere clearly it’s okay. However, I just had to say something about the Malia Obama interview on Access Hollywood.
Let me preface this by saying I am a Michelle Obamaholic. I’ve said before that I wish she were running. She can do no wrong in my book. If I had a daughter, I would tell her that besides her Momma, this is who she should look up to. So by extension, I love the girls, Malia and Sasha, because Michelle is raising them in her image. I know they will grow up a heap better than those alkie Bush twins.
So it was very happy after watching the first two parts of the Access Hollywood feature taking us behind the scenes of the daily life of the Obama family. Even though they are poised to become the first Black family to occupy the White House, they still try to keep life as normal as possible. The kids were allowed to speak and we could see that Malia is growing up to be an intelligent, insightful and extremely articulate young lady. She is clearly her father’s daughter.
Take a look:
I instantly fell in love with her because she reminds me of my eleven-year-old goddaughter. (Not to mention, I’m partial to little girls. They love me. ) Although we don’t know where she got it from, because it certainly wasn’t from her Momma, she has been expressing herself far above her age level since she was about seven or eight. And I’m thrilled about it! We’ve never made a big deal about it because we didn’t want her to think that how she spoke was anything but normal or that she was acting “grown.”
Gossip blogger Sandra Rose disagrees. Here are excerpts from the four entries that she’s posted about this.
Precocious might be too tame a word to describe Malia Obama. This little girl is TOO grown. I blame the parents. What can one expect when both parents are frequently on the road leaving their small children to practically raise themselves?
I watched the video of 10-year-old Malia Obama speaking to a reporter and I swore I was listening to a 19-year-old speak! One of my loyal readers wrote, “This little girl is the most well articulated 10 year old I’ve seen in a long time,” — proving that Malia is too mature for her age.
About Part One of the video she says,
In the above video, Malia Obama chastises her dad, Sen. Barack Obama, for shaking other kids’ hands. “You don’t shake kids hands that much… you shake adults’ hands,” she scolds. In response to her dad asking what he should do instead, Malia says, “you just wave or say ‘hi’.”
Obama should have gently informed his daughter that it’s not her place to tell him whose hand to shake. But I guess he thought she was being cute. This is what happens when you raise your children over the phone from the campaign trail. It’s never “cute” for a 10-year-old to chastise her father. When they lower the legal drinking age limit to ten, then I’ll listen to what a 10-year-old has to say.
Admittedly, I’ve been reading Sandra for a while and I know that she purposefully says ignorant stuff to get folks riled up. Somebody e-mails their girl the link “Chile check out what mess Sandra had to say today!” = more hits = mo money mo money. I get that. That’s why I didn’t link directly from here although she doesn’t need my lowly traffic. I’m sure she got enough from Michelle Obama Watch (a site you should be reading daily ladies!).
I think every single one of her “loyal” readers and those over at Michelle Obama Watch vehemently disagree. No thinking person who watched the video felt that Malia was “chastising” her father or acting fast and grown beyond her years. Do you think either one of them would stand for that? It would have happened one time and by the time she regained consciousness….
And to say that this shows that these kids are raising themselves is not even worth addressing. Just blantantly false and plain ludicrous.
So just how is Malia being “grown?” Because she speaks intelligently and shows insight far beyond her years? Because she actually reads magazines and doesn’t get all her news from the computer? (I actually hope they keep her away from the computer because I’m VERY afraid of what she’ll find there.)
From the Assassination of Barack Obama exhibit:
However, the sad thing is, Sandra is not alone in her way of thinking. In our own communities, we’ve long battled with these kinds of issues – the whole ebonics debate and if there is such a thing as “talking white?” Kids dumbing down in fear of bullying and other kinds of retaliation for excelling in school. It’s a damn shame we’re still discussing this in 2008, a year that will go down in history books.
In any event, we’ve likely heard the last from these adorable girls and it’s probably for the best. They need to remain out of the spotlight and shielded as much as possible from the ignorance. If they keep messing with those kids, we’re going to see an Angry Black Momma come out – and rightfully so!
I for one will miss them – Sasha being a typical seven-year-old, preferring a trip to the ice cream parlor over sitting in front of the camera talking to some strange lady. And old soul Malia, who already wise enough to know that what her parents have is special. I wish Deondra could see more of her. She’s “grown” too. Just the way I like her.
Oh and Jesse, go sit your ass down somewhere.
The problem is they are kids of today. Kids of today are TOO BRATTY. In addition, I think Michelle’s real problem is not her kids, but herself, turning her kids on her husband,. She likes to castrate him and often, perhaps the way Jesse would like to.
I am raising a young man who speaks his mind and has a voice…I happen to see no problem with it. There is a difference between a child that has a voice and one that is disrespectful, and Malia Obama is not a disrespectful child. She is a beautiful young girl who is growing up, being allowed the freedom to say and feel.
Turning her kids on her husband? WTH ever…miss me with that. I don’t see castration of Barack by Michelle or their children…you are stretching it, Colorful…
My uncle lives in a home with three women (my aunt and two daughters) and he often says that he knows exactly what Barack feels…it is not that he feels like they are against him, but that there are some things that he just does not get to participate in…that is a result of him being a man and them being women…and he deals with it. It doesn’t mean that he does not receive the respect, love, and admiration that he deserves as the man of the house (because he does), it just means that sometimes, he is left out. Castration and the women “turning against him” is an excuse that lesser men use when they don’t understand the dynamics of the relationships between men and women, between mothers and daughters and fathers and daughters.
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Yeah, my grandfather has lived in a house full of women for YEARS, and its common for him to just fall back while the women dominate the situation. Its not done on purpose, per se’, just a numbers thing.
In any case, I thought the girls were lovely, and the family is beautifully complete! And as
grownwell/out spoken as Malia is……she still sounded like a child to me. I really don’t see the problem. I had the same affliction as a little girl raised around adults. We can’t help it!I love the girls, that is what they are “Little girls” raised by intelligent black Ivy league college parents. What did they want them to do? Speak ebonics. See what I mean about the black people and the crab barrel scenario. They can possible be the first daughters of the United States. We were being introduced to them, and like some damn heathens, we didn’t appreciate the jester. Oh, Matt Lauer is in my scope site for him acting like an ass mentioning the Access Hollywood interview during Barack appearence about Teran. I guess he was pissed that he didn’t get the honor. To all those who bashed those little girls..pick on someone your own size.
Love you Malia and Sasha. Keep on being little girls, learn all you can cause you are our future.
PEACE!!
@jamilah – yup, that’s what they want them to do. speak like ig’nant video hoes. that’s what some folks are used to. as i said, those girls made me think of my goddaughter and i am as proud of them as i am of her. makes me love michelle and o man even more for the way they are obviously raising them.
I hadn’t seen the Matt Lauer interview yet but it’s not surprising. i just want to make sure he doesn’t let dealing all this extra mess overshadow attacking mcsame on the issues. and he won’t.
I think it’s time for “US” to raise our standards of expectations for each other and our community so that when Barack becomes President we can be ready to make the most of it. If you can’t see and admire the intelligence and poise that the Obama girls possess, you should ask yourself if you’re really hating on the little girls or hating on yourself.
I agree with you. I can tell that she knows her place as a child. She just speaks her mind and tells long stories. lol They remind me of my nieces actually.
Thanks !
WHite kids are given the freedom to express themselves: guess what? It leads to high SAT scores and college entry. Black kids are beaten adn told to shut up when grown ups are speaking: it leads to black kids who are insecure, with low grades and low scores. Stop raising our kids like slaves andlet them speak their minds. Barack and Michelle have done an excellent job and this is why their kids will go far while the kids being spanked and beaten will be working at Wendy’s. We need to cut it out with the slave mentality!
wtf leave his kids alone jus becuz there kids are well spoken doesnt mean we should pick on them.im 14 and i have to admit that i was just like that at that age and no my mother didn’t put me up to it i was just speaking the truth i mean come on now there litlle girls they speak what they fell b4 thinking it. i mean they didn’t have a screen telling them what to say they were just talking from there heart.its just like a casuall family conversation i mea ncome on act your age not your shoe size!
wtf leave his kids alone jus becuz there kids are well spoken doesnt mean we should pick on them.im 14 and i have to admit that i was just like that at that age and no my mother didn’t put me up to it i was just speaking the truth i mean come on now there litlle girls they speak what they fell b4 thinking it. i mean they didn’t have a screen telling them what to say they were just talking from there heart.its just like a casuall family conversation i mea ncome on act your age not your shoe size!
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Glance complex to far brought agreeable from you!
By the way, how can we keep up a correspondence?