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Take Me As I Am

17 Monday Dec 2007

Posted by Vivrant Thang in Feeding The Music Jones

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by vivrant thang on all about me

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So take me as I am,
or have nothing at all.
Just take me as I am,
or have nothing at all.

Don’s poignant post over at Minus The Bars and a conversation with several bloggers over the past couple of weeks has me thinking hard about the direction I want to take Songs in the Key of Life.

I only started this blog a few months ago, but it’s been cooking on the back burner of my mind since the beginning of the year. I’m an avid blog reader, though a not-so-avid writer, but I have always felt that I had a place in the blogosphere. I think one of the major things that was holding me back was wondering what persona I wanted to put out there. How much did I want to share? What would people think of me if I shared some of the not-so-good parts of myself?

  • The fact that I used to weigh more than Shaq

  • The fact that I can be undisciplined, lazy, messy, occasionally mean-spirited, and foul-mouthed

  • The fact that at 30, I am still ambivalent about marriage

  • The fact that I’m just not down for the celibacy blues and at any given time, I may have a cut-buddy or two

  • The fact that I think our energy and attention would be better placed with the Megan Williams and the Dunbar Village cases (for example) than in sympathizing with two dumb asses, TI and Micheal Vick

  • The fact that I, Head Negress in Charge of the Bilal Stan Association, am an official Bilal stalker 🙂

Well, that last one isn’t all that bad, right?

If I put all this and more on my blog for anyone that wanders in here to read, it leaves me open to all kinds of criticism. Before I started the blog, I wondered how I would deal with that that. I’m not always the most patient or tolerant person. Say or do the wrong thing and it can get ugly….sort of like if say, NBA baller Greg Oden and Craig Mack were to procreate.

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I think you get the picture.

However, like any writer, I come to realize when I’m putting my thoughts out there for anyone to read, I have to expect people to disagree, though it should be done respectfully. In some of my posts, I’ve actually encouraged people to comment, particularly if they disagreed with me. I like engaging with those who have an informed opposing viewpoint, again when it’s respectfully presented. It opens up my mind a bit.

I still battle with how much I’ll share on this blog about myself and about others close to me. I’ve already called out some of my friends for one thing or another. Nothing I haven’t said to their faces. I’m just starting to share this space with more of them which tells me that I’m settling in and getting more comfortable.

As I’ve said many times, I don’t know where this blog is going but I do know that everything you read here will be me, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Feel free to disagree (say it with me, re-spect-fully) or even call me a crazy fool (I might agree). But you’ll have to take me as I am. Or have nothing at all.

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The ERRO Concert Experience

13 Thursday Dec 2007

Posted by Vivrant Thang in Let's Rock: Concert Reviews

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James Brown was the hardest working man in show business, rest his soul. Tom Joyner is the hardest working man in radio. Let it be known that Eric Roberson is the hardest working independent artist in soul music. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve seen Erro perform. Butta’s count is eight.  Then again, she is the Head Negress in Charge of the Erro Stan Association. (Try googling anything Eric Roberson and see how many times her blog comes up). Ya’ll should already know ’bout me. Besides, since he’s a Giants fan I can only give him so much love. I’m just sayin.

Everytime I see this man perform is truly an experience. He doesn’t just sing, he performs. His charm and sense of humor keep you entertained during what can end up being a three-hour show. He can fluently switch between rocking out and the “sexy part of the show,” or the music you can put on to “seal the deal.” Amen to that! His freestyles are the illest, with the exception of the one he did on Sunday at the Eden’s Lounge show in Baltimore mentioning his beloved Giants, who had just beat my Eagles earlier that day. He almost caught a bad one.

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I don’t play.

Nah, I got love for my fellow Jersey native. Roselle (where I grew up) and his hometown, Rahway, are a hop, skip and a jump from each other. I used to get some good fried fish over there. I wonder if I ever saw Erro in that spot way back when. Hmm…

He just returned from a European tour, which he details on his very entertaining blog about life as an independent artist. I’m glad he’s back and giving us the hotness again here in the states. I was also excited to hear that he is working on his 6th album, although his latest release, …Left, still gets regular play on the ‘pod.

If you have never had the Erro experience, get ready. As always, this is just a sample. More over on the You Tube channel. You can also check out Butta’s channel for the Erro experience at previous shows.

Let me know what you think in the comments. You can find out more about Erro on his blog and on his Myspace where he keeps his tour schedule. Nice interview here as well.

Change for Me

Softest Lips (from the sexy part of the show)
Check out how he blended in the cover of “Adore”)

Been in Love

Throwback! Throwback!
The Moon, his first single released in ’94

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“Why?”: My Thoughts on the Michael Vick Situation

11 Tuesday Dec 2007

Posted by Vivrant Thang in Feeding The Music Jones

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by vivrant thang on makes me wanna holler and the daily news

 

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All that Ive been givin’
Is this pain that I’ve been living
They got me in the system
So why they gotta do me like that
Tried to make it my way
But got sent on up the highway
Why, oh why
Why they gotta do me like that

Micheal Vick is probably bumping this in his cell right now, along with this throwback.

So he gets twenty-three months (or a little less with good behavior) to sit and think about how he has gone from once being the highest paid player in the NFL to a “disgrace.”

Ya’ll already know, unlike most black folks, I take the hard line with these celebs and athletes. I have no sympathy for them at all. Michael Vick was priviliged to make it to the NFL – and play quarterback at that! Black quarterbacks have a much harder road to travel unlike the Tony Romos and Tom Bradys of the league. Entire books have been devoted to the subject (notice Michael’s name in the title).

Of course it’s not fair. We all know this. However, it’s still a privilege for him to play in the league and make millions. Therein lies his inherent responsibility to abide by a different set of rules. When he was called #1 on draft day and signed that monster contract, there are certain things he needed to leave behind. A certain type of lifestyle and associations that he should have dropped right then and there.

Sure, that’s easier said than done. It still needed to be done and Michael failed to do so. In fact, he used that contract money to finance illegal activities. That just can’t be ignored.

A lot of people [read: black people] are calling the sentence excessive. It probably is. Actually, he could have gotten up to five years so he should consider himself lucky. However, if he hadn’t been down with that “stop snitching” bs, he may have avoided this all together. He could have cooperated early, showed extreme remorse, and could have probably gotten off with probation and some fines. Basically a slap on the wrist.

Again, maybe that’s easier said than done.

Not for his boys though.

When facing a long sentence in the slammer, they started singing like canaries and left Michael holding the bag. So then he tried to tap dance and lie about his involvement after promising to be come clean, thinking he can beat the lie detector test. Of course the judge is going to throw the book at your black ass! He should have just accepted responsibility then and there, like a MAN, and he might gotten the same sentence as his “boys.”

Instead, he tried to be slick. Now look at him.

Dude, you can’t go around killing these animals! I hate to say it, but it might have been better if he had raped somebody. These PETA folks get RAW over the treatment of animals. They care more about Fido’s well-being than they care about human lives.

We all know that dogfighting is a criminal offense. Michael Vick knew that dogfighting was a criminal offense.. So, tell me how did he think he could get away with simultaneously being the HNIC of an illegal dog fighting ring called Bad Newz Kennels (ignorant) and a quarterback in the NFL? HOW? Did he really think no one would ever find out about that mess? That’s just it. He didn’t think. Now, he’ll have plenty of time for that.

I know I keep going back to this, but he was blessed to a natural talent. He was at the top of his game and had very lucrative endorsements with some of the top brands. Yet, he still felt the need to have a little criminal activity going on the side with Purnell aka “P-Funk” and them. (As we’ve seen, nothing good comes out of messing with anybody named Purnell.)

My thing is, they don’t want his black ass having all those millions anyway. They are always rubbing their hands together in anticipation of a screw-up. So why give them the ammunition? Keep your nose clean and let them hate. Michael didn’t make the right choice and I think he needs that time away to think about the mess he’s made of his life.

You know who I have sympathy for – his mother, who sat in that courtroom yesterday, weeping, and probably wondering how she could have raised two sons with so much talent that managed to screw up their lives. I am sympathetic towards all the people he was helping in the community and through his foundation because his finances are in ruins, a situation from which he may never recover. I particularly think about the young men from the same streets he grew up in, who looked at him and saw a dream realized. Now they see a horrible nightmare. What message does this send to them?

You know what they say. Once you’ve hit rock bottom, the only place to go is up. God don’t like ugly and He will take you down. However, He’s also forgiving so once he gets out, let’s see what happens.

I just hope we see a much wiser Micheal Vick emerge from that cell in 2009.

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Update 12/13: I just may have to rethink some of this after seeing that one of the search terms someone entered that led them to my post was “vick stupid nigger.” Doesn’t surprise me, but it doesn’t sit well with me at all.

Update 12/15: Nah, I’m not re-thinking a thing. Mo Kelly reminded me that Vick’s associates in this “enterprise” was drug dealers and that’s how the feds happened to stumble onto all of this. I had forgotten about that. I stand by everything I said here. Can we say “personal accountability?”

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Did You Miss Something?

07 Friday Dec 2007

Posted by Vivrant Thang in Weekly Round Up

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by vivrant thang on weekly round-up

I was a blogging sista this week and it felt great.

Here are some posts you may have missed in between the daily Blogging Black To End Aids entries.

  •  I “got back” with Little Brother and DBrock last weekend.
  • Instead of “texting-to-know-you,” I wondered “Can We TALK?”
  • I let it be known throughout the cyberland that Donnie Hathaway is the Christmas song king. What do you think?
  • Although it makes me wanna holler and throw up both my hands, I had to admit that 10-month old Da’Niyah is in a better place. Where should her mother be though?

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What’s Going On: Black Blogging To End AIDS Final Wrap Up

07 Friday Dec 2007

Posted by Vivrant Thang in Feeding The Music Jones

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by vivrant thang on the aids crisis

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Mother, mother
There’s too many of you crying
Brother, brother, brother
There’s far too many of you dying
You know we’ve got to find a way
To bring some lovin’ here today

This is my sixth and final post for the Black blogger call-to-action, Black Blogging to End AIDS. You can find all the posts here.

I have truly learned a lot this week and I am so glad to have stumbled on to The Black Perspective in time to participate in this important effort. It really meant a lot to me to pay homage to the memory of my family members in some small way.

From the comments, I know at least a few people have read the information. It all starts with just one person.

I just want to call attention to a few more resources that I’ve come across:

  • Visit Avert, a UK based AIDS charity working towards preventing the spread of AIDS on a global level. Read stories from women and men all over the globe that are infected.
  • Pick up Not In My Family: Aids in the African American Community book and companion CD
  • Read Sheneska Jackson’s Lil Mama’s Rules, which is almost ten years old but so very current
  • “Before you have sex again,” view the independent film, One Week. I saw this movie years ago and it’s still with me.
  • Check back here under the AIDS crisis category for more on this crisis in our community. It’s not going away so I’ll have to keep talking about it.

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